Life is what your attitude is !
    Date : 09 Jun 2009
  THOUGHT FOR CONTEMPLATION


Every event which takes place in our life is nothing but the materialization of our own attitude. Our positive or negative attitude towards life, family, job, business, colleagues, problems, situations and circumstances is only responsible for all that which happens in our life. If one can witness ones life, with unbiased mind, one can relate many of life events to past attitude towards a person, situation or the self.

In every situation of life, you will have two choices of attitude to make. The negative and the positive. Your choice will determine future life events. If you sow the seed of a thorny tree, you cannot reap mangoes.

So, stop blaming others for all the wrong things happening in your life, as it is you and you alone who is responsible, for every single event in your life. Keep a check on your attitude. Your attitude shapes your life.

- Ramesh Jain

 
  Experience Sharing

1. Whenever I scold somebody, I get pains in my stomach and after I apologize my pain vanishes.

2. One day I had a fight with one of my supervisor in my factory. I abused him and thrown him out of the job. I continued to be negative against him for several days, as I couldn’t forget the incidence. Couple of days later there was a major breakdown in my factory and production came to standstill. I tried everything to get things right but nothing worked.

After attending your program, I mentally sought forgiveness from that supervisor and changed my attitude towards him. I experienced a rare phenomenon. Those machines which broke down started working as before. After this incident I could co-relate several things happening in my life to my attitude. Having realized the importance of my attitude in my life, I have started achieving greater success than before.


 Question and Answer:

Q: Mind has a natural tendency to be negative. How can we develop positive attitude? It does not seem to be easy?

A: Negativity acts as a gravitational force for the mind. Effortlessly it gets attracted towards negativity and develops negative attitude for everything without realizing the repercussions.

You have to consciously put intense efforts to fight the pulls from negative forces. You have to start becoming extra positive to counter the long lasting negative impressions on the mind, even if that is painful in the short term.

  • Focus on Positive aspect in everybody and in everything.
  • Stop doubting on your success.
  • Be happy with others growth.
  • Stop being pessimistic.
  • Accept failures, pains and impediments with folded hands.
  • Seek happiness in others happiness.
  • Stop being selfish, egoistic and greedy.
  • Apologize and thank mentally, all those people who give you pains and sufferings (as they were forced to become a medium, to give you the result of your deeds).


 
THE JOY OF SEEING OTHERS JOY IS A BIGGER JOY THAN OUR OWN JOY