Never have the feeling of revenge. Even if you have been insulted, hurt, belittled, duped, ignored or tortured (mentally/physically) do not feel to take revenge. Consider your sufferings as the result of your own karma. Our feelings of revenge rebounds on us with double force and would make us suffer more. Remaining calm during such circumstances keeps the doors open for happiness and better things in life

- Shri Ramesh Jain

‘I was duped of lot of money by a person (close relative) because of which I suffered heavily. With vengeance and revenge I tried to get back my money. Nothing worked and I incurred more losses in other deals too during that period. I met with an accident, had a labour strike in my factory and relationship with my wife also got strained. I did not sleep for more than 2 months.

After your advice I forgave the person who duped me and even prayed to god for the well being of that person and lo…. my life started taking a turn. I started sleeping well, newer opportunities came to me and I earned good profits, my health improved as well my relationship improved with my wife. I am back to normalcy (frankly I am in a much better position now). Your advice worked wonderfully well.

Q: When somebody dupes us shouldn’t we take any action to recover our hard earned money?

A: You can always take whatever reasonable actions required to recover your money such as legal, arbitration, diplomatic and advisory but ensure not to emanate negativity against such persons. Do not feel to take revenge, insult or feel that he should also get duped by somebody the way he duped you. Such negativity would rebound on us and harm us more. You must have control over emotions even though you may take reasonable actions to recover your money. Never get disturbed emotionally. Keep your inner self calm and have firm conviction that……… ‘whatever is yours, nobody can take it away from you and whatever has to go, nobody can stop it from going.’